WHATS MISSING IN ALL SELF PROTECTION TRAINING & WHY THE MEDIA LIKES IT THAT WAY
I did a great interview with Brett McKay from the Art of Manliness this week. I share it with you in this article. Wanted you to really focus on what’s most important when it comes to your self-protection, and the interview I did with Brett really highlights the one key that everybody is forgetting, and […]
SELF-DEFENSE AND FIGHT SCIENCE
I love the television shows where physicists, doctors, self-defense experts and computer visualization artists all get together to look at what goes on inside the human body when it gets used as a punching bag. Like the show Fight Science: Of course, things go wrong when everyone involved assumes that the human body behaves like […]
PREVENT VIOLENCE VS. DO VIOLENCE: PART I
Being able to prevent violence and being able to do violence are two very different things. That’s obvious, right? When stated in opposition like that, it’s self-evident. And yet, I get enough feedback to tell me it’s still fuzzy in most people’s heads. Nearly everyone we train shows up looking for the former — they […]
PREVENT VIOLENCE VS. DO VIOLENCE: PART II
Preventing Violence VS. Doing Violence, Continued… The best way to prevent violence is to not be there. The second best way is to give everyone the benefit of the doubt, be calm, and go out of your way to make peace everywhere you go. While on the surface it may seem like a good idea […]
SELF DEFENSE TRAINING: KILLING WITH RULES
During self defense training, you learn that there are stark differences between competition and killing. And yet, when it comes to making the distinction, I’ve found that some people have a hard time differentiating one from the other. A common comment I hear from competitors (whether in boxing, karate or mixed martial arts) is that […]
SELF-DEFENSE: STOP FIGHTING AND DELIVER A BEATING
When you think about self-defense in a life-or-death physical altercation, what scares you the most? I’m willing to bet your biggest fear is that the other guy will hurt you. Whether he does it with a gun, a knife, a club or fists and boots, you are preoccupied with stopping him from hurting you. And […]
SELF PROTECTION QUESTION: HOW CAN I JUSTIFY THE USE OF VIOLENCE?
Tobias from Sweden writes in this self protection question: “I find myself agreeing more and more about your specific way of thinking when it comes down to surviving life-or-death self-defense situations, especially in regards to the fact that the bad guys don’t operate by the laws of society and therefore, in survival, neither can we. […]
SELF-PROTECTION MENTALITY: I WAS PREOCCUPIED WITH WHAT I WAS GOING TO DO TO HIM
My friend’s wife came back from grocery shopping this weekend with a chilling story and insight into her own self-protection mentality: A man stalked her in the remote parking lot behind the store. Now, the story obviously had a good outcome— nothing happened—but it was the way she talked about it, what was important to […]
FIRST STRIKE: HOW AND WHY YOU SHOULD LAND IT
Someone recently wrote in regarding strike response and how to be the first one to act in a violent situation: Dan H. writes: “I am working my way through your DVD series “Surviving the Most Critical 5 Seconds of Your Life,” and I understand and appreciate the series of actions based on response, etc. […]
INTIMIDATION DURING SELF PROTECTION IS A SUCKER’S GAME
Human societies are fascinated with strength and power. Obvious personal power especially — height, musculature, and a hair-trigger willingness to do violence or self protection are eternally impressive to us. We all desire what those attributes grant those who have them: to be respected, to inspire awe, and perhaps fear. When we are intimidated, we […]