Last week’s topic on the self-defense realities of dealing with an active shooter brought a huge response concerning our exploration of the swarming tactic as the best option in an otherwise lousy situation.
I noted that many used their response to promote the way they WISH the world operated… rather than the reality of HOW the world actually is. As a life-long student of our penchant for using violence on one another… this tendency has always fascinated me.
Because here’s the thing: When it comes to your own personal self-protection, you’ve got to make a fundamental decision… am I going to live in the real world… or the world as I ‘believe’ it exists.
Choose the former (the real world) and you’re forced to deal with some harsh realities… such as swarming an active shooter.
Choose the latter and you end up following Alice down the rabbit hole to a land of self-defense make believe…
…Where you get to ignore realities like training for bigger/stronger/faster threats, and the fact the bad guys probably carry weapons and often hunt in packs,
…Where weight classes, rules, and referees exist to protect you (even when they can’t),
…Where you can kick ass, and wear skullcaps or badass t-shirts with elaborate graphics of Celtic war symbols and death skulls,
…Where you can win trophies, tournaments and championships belts, and never once worry about getting stabbed, shot, or jumped by “his buddies” focused on stomping you to death.
It IS seductive… this “world as we wish it was.”
In the past 10 years most of the US military (as well as many law enforcement agencies) has opted for MMA-style training for its personnel. Yet quiz higher-ups on the goal of this training and they’re quick to point out it’s mostly for “team building” or “esprit de corps” — NOT building a skill set necessary for combat. It’s a decision I feel has cost them dearly.
Because train in the real world and you face the ultimate reality: to stop another human determined to cause you grievous bodily harm you must break a structure or sensory system until this predator is non-functional… meaning he’s injured, unconscious, or (if it’s what it takes for you to survive) dead.
That MMA-style programs are devoid of these skill sets is understandable. MMA isn’t somehow inferior, just not designed for the outliers of the real world, the packs of misfits with weapons who always appear bigger, faster and stronger.
MMA is competition… with a ring, a ref and rules. And highly entertaining. Which is precisely why I (and everyone else) enjoy it… because… it’s one time we can shut off our ‘real-world’ lenses!
Here’s my point: I attended the last UFC here in Las Vegas with my 17 year old son. It was an outstanding evening. We had great seats right on the floor, amongst fans and MMA competitors alike.
There we were, surrounded by some of the toughest guys and hardest men on earth. Yet as competent as they were in the seemingly violent world of MMA… transported suddenly into that crowded movie theater in Aurora, Colorado, I don’t think they perform one bit better than anyone else running from the shooter.
As well trained as they all are for competition… they are simply unprepared for destruction.
Again, this isn’t a criticism of those who study MMA or competition martial arts. Like others they simply don’t want to be the ‘next person shot.’
Which is why I implore you to explore the ‘real world of violence’… as it truly is (not as you wish it were)… and ask yourself how you’d solve those lousy questions…
–Tim Larkin
Creator, Target Focus Training
PS. The easiest way to understand why the concept of ‘swarming the shooter’ is the best approach for minimizing loses when disaster unfolds (as it did in the Colorado shooting) is to review TFT’s principle-based approach to self-protection. And the quickest way to do that is by reading our book, “How To Survive The Most Critical 5 Seconds Of Your Life.”
And remember, you can now get both the book (in hardcopy) PLUS the professionally-recorded, 5-CD audio version at a special introductory price by going here: hardcopy book + audio CDs.


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Second, how about having one of those “mentally ill” folks come at you with a gun & see how you react. Think you can talk them out of it? Here’s your choice, take them out or you get killed; which do you choose?
I’m always amazed(but shouldn’t be) how so many people live in fantasy land. It’s NOT a movie!!
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consider, any mma fighter could probubly pin me in no time. but while he holds me there, my brothers freinds comrades hit him over the head with a bat. who wins? pins and submission holds are great for the ring and for bouncers, in a real world life or death fight not so good….just something to consider
As a person who suffers with mental illness I appreciate your sympathy and I thank you for it. It is a very difficult and sometimes indescribable way to live.
However, in my personal experiences with violence,many of which have occured in mental hospitals and group homes, I’ve learned that once someone wants to hurt you
(not just fight you, but hurt you), and there is no one there to help you but yourself, you can’t afford to be sympathetic towards your attacker. On one occasion, I almost got my neck broken trying to sympathize with my attacker. I was lucky. After having experienced this and other similar instances, I’ve learned that no matter how much I can sympathize or identify with anyone who is trying to hurt me, mentally ill or otherwise, I cannot afford to sympathize at the cost of my life. Violence opens your eyes and changes the way you look at things. I don’t wish such circumstances on you, but you never truly understand violence until it happens to you, and I would treat anyone who violently attacks me the same way, regardless of the situation. In this country we have many ideals about how we should treat people, but often ideals cannot be accomplished just because we believe in them. Asking someone to sympathize with another human being who is actively trying to hurt or kill them is asking the former to risk their own life. I sympathize with people who grow up in poverty and out of necessity turn to violent crime, but I can assure you that once someone points a knife or gun in my face, my sympathy will be greater for myself. Maybe they’re hungry, but do I deserve to die?
You may say that maybe the person doesn’t actually want to shoot or stab you; maybe they just want to scare you into you giving them your wallet, but do you think I’m going to wait to find out? I wouldn’t expect any kind of mercy from someone who is at the very least trying to make me think that they’ll kill me if I don’t comply. I understand where you are coming from, but take it from someone who has both perspectives. You can be sympathetic and probably be killed, or you can do what you have to to save your life.
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You are living in a fantasy world. You think that when some is rushing at you with a kitchen knife intent on ending your life, you will have the time to THINK about how you are going to attack him.
You don’t ‘think’ in violence. You only react. You do what you train. And if you train to carefully perform “nonlethal techniques” against a man who’s bigger and stronger than you and wants to kill you, then you have no grasp on reality.
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I LEFT THE CORPS IN 1969 AND BECAME A POLICE OFFICER, WHERE THEY SPENT MANY MANY HOURS TEACHING ME HOW TO MAKE SOMEONE ‘COMPLY’…..TWO DIFFERENT WORLDS….IT IS MY OPINION THAT MOST (not all) COPS DIE BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT GIVEN THE DEADLY FORCE ASPECT OF CQB. WHEN THEY LOSE THEIR GUN OR CAN’T GET TO IT THEY USUALLY GET STOMPED OR KILLED….COMPLIANCE TECHNIQUES ONLY WORK ON THOSE WHO WILL SUBMIT TO THEM AND GIVE IN TO PAIN. THE NUT JOBS WON’T! THERE WAS A SIGN AT THE ACADEMY MANY YEARS AGO WITH JOHN WAYNE IN HIS MARINE GEAR FROM “THE SANDS OF IWO JIMA” IT SAID ” LIFE IS TOUGH, IT’S TOUGHER IF YOU’RE STUPID” …UNFORTUNATELY THE ACADEMIES ARE TEACHING COPS TECHNIQUES AND MINDSETS THAT CAUSE THEM TO “DIE STUPID” BECAUSE OF THIS “POLITICALLY CORRECT” GAP IN THEIR TRAINING…KEEP TRAINING THE COPS AS WELL AS THE PUBLIC…IT WILL SAVE THE LIVES OF THE “GOOD GUYS”….JUST MY THOUGHTS.
RAY FROM CHICAGO…
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I teach a women’s self defense program and could not agree with you more. Dealing with a real predator who wants to harm you-there are no rules.
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You mentioned, in the previous blog post, your Israeli friends have learned the hard way to swarm the shooter (and I completely embrace their hard learned knowledge– “Let’s Roll”, United Flight 93). What do your Israeli friends think of the Krav Maga training? Do they use empirical resources (the prison riot footage, video of actual injury, etcetera) like TFT? (My step daughter likes Krav Maga and I am trying to steer her into TFT, but my influence isn’t much. Hoping there is lots of common ground in case she hunkers down with it).
Thanks, admiration, respect to you and Chris
Spencer
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I feel these people need the benefit of rehabilitation and the empathy and understanding of their community, as their experiences, when shared by them after they receive treatment, may be of highest value to researchers, doctors, law enforcement, and members of their community. They cannot share their experiences when they are dead.
I have highest respect for Law Enforcement and truly desire their continued safety and security. I feel that Law enforcement officers and agents are being underserved by their superiors, be they bureaucrats or politicians, when they are not given free access (access purchased by their governing agency at no cost to them) to training offered by TFT; as it is this training that will allow them to understand and embrace their superiority in crisis situations, and so too to render otherwise good-hearted, mentally-ill people who are behaving violently, nonfunctional without having to kill them.
Without TFT training, the probability that fear will grip some officers and agents so tightly in a crisis situation involving a mentally ill person, potentially leading said officers and agents to feel as though they’ve no alternative but to shoot a victim of mental illness so as to neutralize the threat to the community, may rise.
This needn’t be the case. Law enforcement officers and agents are equally as formidable as the mentally ill and violent. Those officers who aren’t confident in their skills just need training to convince them of their own power.
It is my true opinion that MMA training does not equip them with this confidence. It may appear counterintuitive, but TFT’s violent nature grants its practitioners the skill sets needed to, if at all possible, render an offender non-functional sans killing them, whereas MMA training may fall far short of this standard.
Nate Rogers
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In my opinion, if you empathize with the predator and not the prey, your fear quickly dissipates, and so too does your propensity to panic. You may then realize that, if ever confronted with asocial violence, sure, you can kill as effectively and efficiently as anybody else. It’s easy to kill people, so it’s no big deal to do it if it’s the best way to save your own life. However, if you injure your aggressors, then your aggressors are injured. Whether they’re sane, mentally ill, deviant, or desperate, is irrelevant: they’re injured. Injured people can’t hurt you. If you’ve truly injured them successfully by causing some trauma that would require intense medical intervention to be healed, and you kill them anyway, then you’ve successfully thought like a victim, because you killed them while in panic.
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Jungle fighting required me and my team mates to become one with the terrain, the vegetation, the bugs and the weather. Living in an isolated environment 24×7 far away from other friendly forces required us to use our natural senses to scan our surroundings, to smell, to hear, to feel and use that, “I am being watched,” sense that has to be responded to immediately every single time.
I know there are many wannabees out there who have learned about the war by reading books and then adopted their readings as if they were own experiences, but not I. I am no wannabee. I am a, wish I hadn’t been.
The most alert, quickest responding, and most spontaneously violent win. The combination of refining our senses to scan, smell, listen, detect, target, use ultimate violence when necessary, and having to live with a never ending involuntary mental replaying of that violence is what PTSD is. I am not a bad man. I am a good and faithful citizen still willing to give my life for others. Somehow in the many situations I have been in and ended, the aggressors knew it and by breaking the engagement, or avoiding my area, managed to live that day. I projected ultimate power and I didn’t have to use it. They knew if that if they stayed clear of me they’d be okay. They knew the rules of territorial domain. Approach my personal space and you are in danger. Enter my personal space and you will not be spared. Otherwise, all of us with PTSD are pretty nice guys, good neighbors, policemen, firefighters, medics, nurses, doctors, teachers. We are everywhere, truck drivers, mechanics, carpenters, plumbers. There have been exceptions, but not many.
Except for the sleep disorder, and startle components, Combat Related PTSD is not a mental disorder for us. It is an advantage over others. It is a higher form og evolution. It is a badge of honor. We trained hard, fought well, faced and killed our enemies. We are a Band of Brothers.
With a mother screaming, and people standing around doing nothing, I ran into a burning home and saved a baby. I stopped at an accident scene where no one was doing anything but screaming about a motorcycle accident victim. He had a broken cheek bone, and was lying on his back, his mouth and nasopharynx filled with blood. His face was blue and he had started to convulse as I arrived. He was drowning in his own blood. I saved him. I have ended attacks on others just by commanding the aggressor to stop and even a few times, causing them great pain. I have done many other similar things. I know what to do and I do not hesitate to do it. I am fearless. I have Combat Related PTSD, TBI, hearing loss in my left ear, left eye impairment, frequent headaches from a proximity 500lb HE bomb explosion. Mind your corrupt thinking about us. Respect us. We have earned it. I have never arrested.
We have, and will continue to serve our people with love, honor and integrity.
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myself a former special forces soldier and avid martial artist (even as i get older and slowwer) i know what you are saying here is very true. mma does not teach you to fight for your life only for points and submission. just like boxing.
when i first started in both kenpo and krav magra the first rule was if you go to ground you die. that training principle holds true in every real world event i have experienced. the mma style of sport emphisises going to ground. just consider folks, as tim said most criminals hunt in packs. if you put a great move on bad guy number one and take him to the ground pinning him. what is to stop bad guys number 2- whatever from hitting you over the head with a bat or stabbing you etc…you get the picture.
mma training is better than nothing for a real world situatiaon but i personally will stick with kenpo and krav magra, both styles that are not allowed in the ufc…
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I have several rules to “LIVE BY”
1 do not follow the rules
[I carry even when it is forbiden by the property owner unless they can frisk me and arrest me] private property folks cant do it.
2 never say I have or show my gun unless or until I am fireing it at the bad guys.[suprise is my friend and not theirs]
Always cheat if possible
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I read you book, “How To Survive The Most Critical 5 Seconds Of Your Life.”
My opinion of the book itself is like a big advertisement for your TFT training coarse. Your training coarse is probably very good for real life situations; I would love to attend one of the seminar/training camps sometime, but your book does not actually give any real info as to how to really protect yourself in a life and death situation. The books main point – go to a TFT training camp
Thanks,
John Mac
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The point of the book wasnt to give a how to, step by step course of instruction on hand to hand combat. I wrote it with Chris with the idea to discuss the principles of violence in particular the ideas of Anti-Social behavior versus Asocial violence.
We have many DVD products that show the system of TFT and we felt a book that discussed the principles of violence was far more useful to people becuase that is usuually where people make thier mistakes.
My goal with clients isn’t to ultimately get them to use the training but to live a life where using the training is as minimised as possible. The subjects discussed in the book were to that end.
TFT is hardly mentioned by name in the book and I can assure you it wasnt designed as a lead generation vehicle for live training. I’m sorry that was the impression left with you after reading it.
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Zube Pavao
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Your “World that is vs. world that we wish for” paradigm needs to be extrapolated to every other aspect of life. Many people seem opposed (if not outright hostile) to the idea that some humans can be expected to do the wrong thing, out of negligence or malice. We really cannot afford to forget that.
Thanks for continuing to state this plainly.
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The analogy of swimming to save your life used in the course is a great one. Thanks again.
Lou
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casulties , no matter how well trained someone is.
But that would be the only way to limit casulties, the reality is 3 is better than 30.
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Keep doing what you do , Steve Bays
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Most folks recoil in horror when you suggest they stand up and defend themselves in any bad situation.We are simply unable to accept that we are capable of real violence when needed. Our culture promotes peace at all costs, and since most of us have never had a serious, violent encounter, we are at a loss in an emergency situation. It takes getting your ass handed to you a few times for most people to accept the need to train for violence. Your TFT course is by far the best preparation for this kind of mind training. No question. Swarm the bastard!
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The killer is still a human being and, if possible, without allowing more killing, that human being should be given every chance of living. Morally, at least my morals, the least amount of effective force should be used and not more. Practically, a killer with a gun should be shot as fast as possible and if he/she dies, too bad. BUT, if I have a chance to safely use a taser, pepper spray, a fire extingusher ar even a ball bat then I do not believe it is OK to shoot (my personal morals).
Let’s face it, most of the time when an active killer strikes, choices are few. Personally, given an active killer situation, I will immediately start shooting and will continue until the gun is dropped or the killer is on the round. That assumes I have a reasonable shot.
Given no gun and close proximity, charge and hope someone else does too. That is a really p..s poor situation but I’m going down fighting!
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But in the real world if you swarm a shooter , you are likely to be the only one swarming him and if he can see you he’ll probs pick you off.
So until this “swarming” technique gets out to more people….isn’t it a decision about each individual case, what is more likely to lead to the survival of you and the ones you care about…to run or to swarm
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first… what i dont understand…..
A. if you have a CCW and a means to defend yourself, why cower and “wait” for a shot. while your waiting, the bad guy is shooting and innocent people are going down, some dying. if you have no shot, force a shot… do something to make him move, retreat, take his focus off those who cant defend himself. if you show him your a threat, yes now your his target, likely… his only target untill he kills you or you kill him. Isnt that why you have a ccw???? think about this, would you be happy if a police officer was in that room and he “hid” while the shooting was taking place “waiting”, no you would expect him to stand up, address the threat and save your A@@. by you deciding to CCW… is it only you that you care about, or everyone who is innocently being shot all around you. HEROS dont take time to “think” they just act!
B. Next, phil states you are likely to be the only one swarming. this is possible if you are out alone. but if your with friends/family you have the opportunity to talk to them right now, before violence and explain to them what swarming is and how it is dangerous, but a necessity. when everyone runs away, its like shooting fish in a barrell, everyone funnels toward an exit and one person can inflict alot of harm at that exit with ease. what if five people rushed him, he may get two then overpowered and 50+ are saved from harm. the way i do math 2 is better than 50 anyday. And yes, before there are any comments about MY life being in jepordy, I served in the military for 9 years and i have been in law enforcement for 10years, so yes… i would run, have ran, and will continue to run towards the shooter and risk my life to save yours.
I am not sure why when the term swarm is used, alot of people feel like that means you have to have twenty guys and cover some great distance to accomplish it, a swarm can happen with one or two people that are at arms length or even 5,7,10 feet away that can get there quick with one or two steps. sometimes the 5-7 foot range can be best as you can get momentum to drive the guy off ballance or into a wall and then begin your attack to overwhelm (notice i did not say overpower…. OVERWHELM) the attacker with violence.
Now some examples….
example 1- you and three friends are on your way to a concert. you stop at a local gas station to fill up your car/truck/suv. you go in to pay for gas, your friends come in to get drinks/snacks. as you are paying a guy walks in and puts a gun in your face and the clerks face and demands money, wallets, ect….. HE IS WITHIN arms reach of almost all involved, the decision to swarm should be an instant reaction. immediately overwhelm, disarm and hurt him real bad real fast. or… submit and give him the opportunity to shoot each of you one at a time if he so chooses. you never know what a person will do, so there is no gurantee that just because you give him what he wants that he wont shoot you, some fear you will identify them and dont want witnesses whil others fire a shot on accident because of addreniline and others still… fire a shot into your chest out of pleasure or to a warning to the rest of the group not to follow as he runs away like a coward. if im going to get shoot, its because i “decided” to not be a victim and to take action, NOT because some punk decided i was an easy target.
Next example, you and your friends and family are in a shoping mall food court, its a early sunday morning and the mall is not that busy. a guy comes in and shows or fires a gun, hes on the other side of the eating area some 20-30 feet away with tables between you and him. the exit is 5 feet away from your table, if you leave there are only employees left at each food service counter that also have a rear exit… in this case, i would protect my family and exit quickly… wait i regress… im a cop and i always have my gun, me personally i like those odds, me against one bad guy at 30 feet… im putting him down right fu@king now, but to the average citizen…. the exit would be the wise and safe choice as you risk more by swarming because your are the only one in danger.
and finally, just my opinion… things to concider when thinking about the swarm issue/technique…
– how many people are in danger
– what type of weapon, you can swarm a gunman with 3 or more people, but would you want to if it were a belt fed fully auto SAW rifle… no.
– how far/easy is it for you to get to him
– what choices are there for escape (for everyone in danger not just you)
– is the risk of your life justified
ok, bottomline…. if a man pulls a gun and you have to think about should i swarm, its too late. that is a decision that you should have made already, it should be a reflex action, you see a gun and you have a gun you are trained to stop the threat right, well it works if you dont have or cant get yours too. the difference is, now you have to take his so you do have one, but dont get caught up trying to disarm him and struggle over the gun. take him out ASAP and at best, simply control the arm holding the gun to minimize the threat until he is unconcious or dead.
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I was saddened to hear of the incident at your church. there are many others that have been victim to violent attacks also. schools and churches are easy targets because they are by design a place where people are supposed to feel safe. yet they offer no real protection. schools have started implimenting metal detectors, security cameras, security guards and in some places school district police services with police in each school. it sadens me that our society has come to this, but i am glad to know that you are trying to prepare and take action if needed. my best advise i can give to you is simply “dont wait”. dont sit there in you pew, with your pepper spray, wondering who else will help if a swarm is needed. im sure you talk with others in your church, im sure you have a memorial of some type of the incident that happend previously, use these. talk to people about “what if” it happens again. let them know your ideas, let them know your preperations, let them be aware of the knowledge and information you know. dont keep it a secret, your life may depend on others knowing what you know.
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Just to say that the Book and C.D.s ordered have still not arrived, am i to assume they are in transit ?
Regards Ronnie.
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